What people assume is that it will happen when you least expect it, and yes it probably will, but that doesn’t mean you can’t help it along a little, sort of give fate a nudge in the right direction.

Bill was a pretty good pool hustler and one night he talked me into going with him. We went to this little bar called the Red Door Inn. The door was probably red because there was blood all over it.

The good thing about Sundance is that there is always a better party just down the street so I head to Tao to meet some other friends just in time to see Nelly perform as Lance Bass, Akon, Tara Ried and Mathew Lillard get the place Hot in Herre.

Wicked Charleston Walking Tour (through October 22, 8 p.m.): This 90 minute tour takes a look at the dark side of Charleston: prostitutes, politicians, transvestite killers and gangsters. The tour begins at the Daughters of the Confederacy Building at 188 Meeting St. Tickets are $15. This is easily the best tour of Charleston because it’s not the basic Market, Battery, and Four Corners of the Law behind a smelly horse tour.

12 Steps Down was nominated for Best t-shirt country in Philly in 2007 and 2008, and one of the best bars for 2008 by Philadelphia Magazine. There are good reasons for these accolades. A truly diverse and great bottle beer list, made up of both domestics and imports. A nice draft beer menu with a “beer of the week” that varies, although not necessarily weekly as the name suggests (depends on how quickly the keg, or kegs, kick). XM radio set to the New Wave station (this might not be a plus to some people, but it’s what I like to listen to). Knowledgeable bartenders. A cast of regulars.

Ask yourself, “Is there more of a chance that I would chat with a cutie if I actually looked cute?” Most likely the answer is yes. If you look cute, chances are you feel better about yourself, and you’ll be more confident around said cutie. We all know confidence is a very attractive quality to have.

DJ: Finally, being a DJ can really up your chances of getting in good with the hot girls who love to dance. It’s the next best thing to being a rock star, and it doesn’t require much musical talent to pull off. Women love music, and music heavily influences people’s emotional state. When you’re a DJ at a party or a rave, you’re the center of attention, and women will gravitate to you because of it.

“Good move,” he says when I raise on a pair of Sixes. If you have any queries about where and how to use Nightclub Scene, you can contact us at the web site. But he quickly puts me in my place on the next hand when I call a $300 raise with a Queen, Ten in my hand. “Stupid move. What were you thinking?” After the game we decide to head out with Gold and his crew to Tao. The place is packed but a path is immediately cleared for us with Gold leading the way. Lance Bass, P. Diddy, Danny Masterson and Jamie Kennedy are among the crowd as I kick off my first night at Sundance.